If you discover that your child is being cyberbullied, talk to him
or her about any experiences you have had in your childhood. This can help your
child feel less alone. Let your child know that it's not his or her fault, and
that bullying says more about the bully than the victim. Talking to teachers or
school administrators also may help, but take cues from your child.
Many schools, school districts, and after-school clubs have
established protocols for responding to cyberbullying; these vary by district and
state. But before reporting the problem, let your child know that you plan to
do so, as he or she could have concerns about "tattling" and might
prefer that the problem be handled privately.
Other measures to try:
· Block the bully. Most
devices have settings that allow you to electronically block emails, IMs, or
text messages from specific people.
· Limit access to technology. Although
it's hurtful, many kids who are bullied can't resist the temptation to check
websites or phones to see if there are new messages. Keep the computer in a
public place in the house (no laptops in children's bedrooms, for example) and
limit the use of cell phones and games. Some companies allow you to turn off
text messaging services during certain hours. And, most websites and phones
provide the option for parental controls, which provide parents with access to
their children’s messages and online life.
· Know your kids' online world. Check
their postings and the sites kids visit, and be aware of how they spend their
time online. Talk to them about the importance of privacy and why it's a bad
idea to share personal information online, even with friends. Encourage them to
safeguard passwords. Write up cell phone and social media contracts that you
are willing to enforce.
· Look to the web for resource
and support information about cyberbullying.
If your son or daughter agrees, you may also arrange for mediation
with a therapist or counselor at school who can work with your child and/or the
bully.
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